Desire differences
When one partner wants sex more often—or wants something different—and the gap has become painful for both of you.

But when sex becomes a source of hurt, pressure, avoidance, shame or confusion, it can affect how you feel about yourself and how you connect with a partner.
As an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, I offer a comfortable, direct and sex-positive place to talk about the things that can be surprisingly hard to talk about anywhere else.
When one partner wants sex more often—or wants something different—and the gap has become painful for both of you.
When erotic connection has faded and you're not sure how to approach each other without pressure, rejection or awkwardness.
When sexual experiences, beliefs, expectations or past experiences make it difficult to relax into pleasure and intimacy.
Questions about what you want, what you enjoy, how you express yourself, or how to bring more authenticity into a relationship.

I work with people of varied orientations, relationship structures, cultural backgrounds and religious traditions. Therapy isn't about prescribing what your sex life should look like. It's about helping you understand yourself and create a sexual life that fits your values, your body and your relationships.
For couples, sex therapy often overlaps naturally with relationship therapy: sexual connection and emotional connection affect each other.
The first step is a free 15-minute phone consultation. Tell me a little about what's bringing you in, ask your questions, and get a feel for how I work.
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